[davidk]

it is so hard to watch such self destruction,

especially as she is a functioning substance abuser, like she does hold down a job etc,

I think if someones life is a total mess like on heroin where it takes their whole life away that maybe its easier to accept but because with coke/weed and alcohol we still see so much of the good side its harder to let go of it, and of course it breaks my heart to think of her getting worse but I do kind of accept that all the support in the world can’t change some people’s destiny.