He just turned up at 10pm last night, I’d told him to stay in as long as possible, he says they discharged him. I no longer want him to open his mouth because I suspect lies all the time and silence feels easier.
The house couldn’t be more alcohol free but I found myself in the night thinking, shit my bag has cash and my cards in there! So got up and hid it in the freezer. The kids have Christmas money here as well so I need to get it stashed away somewhere, I’d never think he could stoop as low as that before but now I wouldn’t put anything passed him. So I’ve ended up with him home, I’ve told him I’m contacting the homeless shelter if he slightly messes up and doesn’t attend the meetings he’s supposed to go to let alone starts drinking. I guess I’ll just have to see if I can ever view him as anything but a parasite going forward, he has a chance to sort himself out but I don’t have any confidence he will.
You have remained strong this time in spite of your upset over feeling you are losing it all, the home you’ve built with the intent of living there one day and the support you have given time and again to her and the children, you are an true gentleman and man far above what feel I married. She will lose you and hopefully reality will set in, but I doubt it as I don’t think they know anything about reality and if they get the slightest whiff of it they decide to dive into the pits of their addiction so they don’t have to deal with it.
To share something funny and make you laugh. Apparently when he got to hospital he fell out the ambulance, must of dropped his phone and the the ambulance drove over it! That did actually make me chuckle and an added bonus it prevented him messaging and calling me, maybe there is intervention after all lol.