Hi I can completely relate. My partner and I have struggled the past 2.5 years as his drinking has just got worse. He also changes when he gets really drunk and has been verbally aggressive and spiteful. He changes completely. Some days he drinks 4 cans of beers other 18. I worry that he will make himself really poorly. This all stemmed from his dad dying. He has turned into such an awful person when he drinks and he was horrible to my 12 year old Niece on Christmas Day and my family no longer want to speak to him and don’t want me to be with him. When he is sober he is caring, thoughtful, giving and such a hard worker. It’s just awful. I completely understand how you feel. I don’t really know what to do about it and feel torn 🙁
