It’s so hard isn’t it. I wish I could advise you what to do. I have tried to get my partner to stop drinking but doing it in a positive way saying drink is stopping us both from having the life we want. He lasted two weeks and complained about not drinking most days. Then went back to drinking even more. I think they have to make the decision and admit they have a problem and want to change. I’ve read a few things that say as their spouse you have to look after yourself. It helps speaking to someone maybe getting support for yourself that might help you make a decision about what you want to do?
