[davidk]

hello dre80,

thanks for keeping in touch on my story,

sorry to hear your partner is still causing you quite a bit of worry,

as others have said, we do need to try and overcome our own addiction to the person,

maybe you should attempt to force yourself to take a set period of time away from social media so you aren’t winding yourself up checking his instagram etc,

easier said than done I know, but I think these things get easier with time, so set a small window like decide now to let new years pass without looking again until midday tomorrow, and then by that time tomorrow you might feel like you can stay away longer,

try and have a good evening and I hope next year is a positive one for you.