Yes, we have no duty to them, they are adults themselves and responsible for their own decisions! I am responsible for mine, and who comes to dictate my rules? addicted? we cannot allow this anymore.
Me too, having to occupy myself, the bad thing was the rejection, I even stayed there after he talked about the addiction, I got hurt, I should have jumped out, yes, each one has a time limit, and he jumped out long before the age of 5 months, but with 5 he reached the limit of wanting freedom, do not cover yourself too much, but do not allow yourself to enter the wheel of the ramster and comfort zone. I am happy that you sleep better, eat well, and do activity, all these days I went out a lot to walk alone, if you lived in Brazil, I would walk with you both 🙂 to whom I have great empathy and affection.
I have been writing my frustration in the diary, I read aloud, I speak to God and I cry sometimes. It will pass friends … faith.