Reply To: my story of 7 years with an addict partner.

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dre80
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friend, i’m also empath, solicitous, and i deliver more than they give me and yes, waiting for a return. But with them, this return cannot come, for me it didn’t come in 5 months, only heartbreak and crumbs. Unilateral indeed. I remember that 2 months ago, he was in the kitchen with me, just talking about him, tiredness, company, family, I thought: wow, isn’t he just talking about him all these months? I don’t like it anymore, he talks almost as if alone too, he wouldn’t even need me, .. and I thought about finishing. Well, here I am, to tell you that for them only cocaine is enough, there is no human relationship that is of satisfaction to them, only by manipulation sometimes, and selfishness. Why surrender to someone who doesn’t see you? can’t you count on her? they only think about them, because the drug removes empathy, and you would only be useful if it could smell you. It sounds like a joke, but that’s what I thought about me ok? now it is freeing the mind as our friend says, stone .. who gave us precious advice. I put myself in your place, because I am loving too but we cannot babysit two manipulative adults. To choose much better in the next person, if there is someone like us in the world, who is dedicated, we can meet someone who is dedicated to us too. There is the frustration of having given so much, to someone who gave almost nothing, it irritates me a lot, but we deserve something much better. You deserve.

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