if in 7 years she thinks she hasn’t reached rock bottom yet, difficult, they will hardly assume to be so bad, only if a health hazard occurs, and even so, as thelostone said, they go back to drugs, she is stronger that they! this ex of mine, he said he used it for 5 years, then 7, and he is super ok with it. He just went looking for a doctor and medicine, because the partner told him about negligent behavior at work, he takes the medicine for nothing, I believe, maybe it will even give a good feeling hhaa … seriously, because I doubt that without therapy, strength of will, initiative, they get something. You have been addicted to it for 7 years, and you can meet someone nice, as already said here, you are special and waste life with someone who decides to die a little every day. Try to get to know other people, I’m trying to do this, lightly, talking to friends. And my friend never told me to stay with this ex, he said, get out of it, he’ll sink you in it because that’s what everyone does. Just read the posts here. You need to fix your life and not hers, move around your house, and ask every day … for strength to let go of her. I was impacted in months, I know it is not simple for you these years, but if you start looking at yourself, investing in that energy … it will be left aside. I took the advice of thelostone, love me, and overcome him day by day in the mind that he was horrible, terrible in bed, did not help me with snacks, we just walked out 2 times in 5 months, he bit me, he disrespected me talking with others while with me, pampered, allowance at 40 please, and he was not interested in me. He had some gentle gestures, but to manipulate … think about the bad part, that right now she is not even there for you, or they would be fine now. Sad, but when you get angry at it, and see that you lost your life, you forget about it. I hope this happens.