Hi Jilly, I’m so sorry to read of your husband’s problem with alcohol. It’s sad that you are feeling so lonely and I am glad that you have found this forum.
What you are coping with is hard, so if you would like some help please contact us at Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports families going through what you are. We have trained and experienced people you could talk with or they would help you to find local support.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
If you are worried about your husband getting physically aggressive with you please don’t hesitate to phone the National Domestic Violence Helpline on 0808 2000 247or information and advice. This line is free and confidential and is open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
I hope this is helpful. All the best.