that’s true,
they need to make the choice and right now she is choosing drugs, and pretending like that isn’t even a problem.
and you are right, it is half a relationship, and a very one sided one,
its so annoying as in day to day life no one who knows me would expect me to put up with this shit as I am not normally the sort to waste my time and put up with bullshit as I am a logical person normally, but then I am also very passionate and caring when it comes to the things I DO care about.
and that’s the problem, she somehow enters that part of my heart.
whatever happens in the future I definitely have changed to some degree, and no longer have the dream of a happy future and the home etc, no matter what even if she does sort herself out etc I need my own security and I won’t ever have that living at hers as she has utterly destroyed that,
so with this in mind I don’t know how much of anything else could really be left anyway.
I’m sure in that 12 weeks you were away he spent a good portion of that time thinking it was some amazing holiday to do what he liked as I’m sure that’s what my girlfriend will be thinking right now, as I am the obstacle for her drugs and now that obstacle is removed.
its so sad these people can get to such an age and still act like teenagers.
surely most people grow up.