exactly.
With some thought, an email wouldn’t work. He has to read it on a very small phone screen, so that is futile. I would need to print and post it. Which gives me 24 hours to consider things.
My overriding feeling is that one line of abuse makes him shocked, but really it is the tip of an iceberg and my full length reply really documents every single moment of abuse, and explains why it went wrong. If I can catch him in a moment when he isn’t a defensive drug fuelled idiot, it will certainly hit home.. and I could feel I’ve said all I want to say, and maybe get some closure.
Didn’t I say to you it never end? No matter how strong you are, if you are a kind, compassionate caring person, it never end.