Hi whattodo
Welcome to the forum, I wanted you to know that you are not alone.
Everyone on this forum has a loved one with an addiction. There are also people in recovery offering support and advice. The homepage has support and Icarus trust posts here to.
Read the other threads, particularly the Theresa thread, there’s several of us mums all with sons who have addictions.
I think your son is in denial if he doesn’t think he has an issue. Most addicts won’t admit they have a problem or need help. It’s su h an evil drug which messes with their emotions, runs up debt and destroys lives and families.
It’s difficult as a mum to stand back and watch this. Unfortunately he has to admit he has an addiction and get support. AA and CA have online meetings, they are so supportive of each other.
My 28yr son has had alcohol and cocaine addictions for several years. The alcohol triggers the need for cocaine so he needs to abstain completely. Good news is, he’s over 90 clean. Not gonna lie, its been so, so hard for him, relapses happen, but it can be done. There are several success stories here too.
It’s difficult when there’s MH issues too, I think my son is OCD, everything he does It’s 100 %.
Try not to worry to much, take care of yourself or it will consume you.
Always here to chat
Lx