Hi, we are all here for each other,
that’s the great thing about this site, most people are in the same boat and have gone through a pretty standard set of emotions, we all move along so some people are further along than others,
but I think we are at a similar period, both clinging to the hope that the person we fell in love with is still in there and will come back to us.
we are also a similar age, I am 34, so perhaps where we are in life has something to do with it too, like we haven’t had all our hopes ruined yet, whereas someone older and more experienced might be more realistic against our battle.
currently me and my partner are apart, I couldn’t remain with her watching what was happening in the house, she likes to have control so is acting like we are over because she wants us to be, which perhaps we are as I no longer have the strength to repair what she has broken and she is in total denial that things need fixing or that she has a problem so its a kind of stalemate
it breaks my heart to think of a future without her and also how terrible she may make her own future, but I have kind of accepted now that no matter what I do I cannot fight her drug problem for her.