Hi, not so boring123. Can’t call you boring 123
You are not alone, lots and lots of people are going through what you are. And you have every right to be concerned. He deffo has a problem. He is hiding how much he drinks, my partner does that, hides it in the house, car even in coloured water bottles so it looks like he is drinking water !
Speak to him when he hasn’t had a drink about your fears. But have planned what you want to say and the point you want to make. And stay calm.
It’s not easy, but it will help a little talking to strangers on here. Helps make you stronger and is a release.