Hiya posie, hope your OK,
I’m a coke addict and I’m 4 week clean today. And now I’ve joined C A, this is my last attempt.
Your husband is definitely an addict. If you use once a month for years, you are an addict. You still fall back to the drug. He needs to want to quit for himself and admit he has a problem to see any changes in him. If he decides to stop. He needs get rid of his mates, dealers nums and quit alcohol all together, as this is a main trigger.
What are his come downs like? The next day? It sends you suicidal and depressed for days. This is my major factor for quitting. They are horrendous and what goes through your head when the coke has gone is awful.
Just ask him what’s more important the coke or you and the kids. I’ve tried quitting for years. I hate the stuff. It just grips you. And it’s hard to avoid as it is everywhere.
Feel free to ask me anything