[Anonymous]

Thank you both for an insight I didn’t have before. I think that the use wasn’t regular all through the years but after her second child I think she had post natal depression which I did everything I could to help but I think she started self medicating with it. They have moved a bit further away now but I have reached out to her offering support lately as she had blanked me out if her life for a while. They are supposed to be seeing a marriage counsellor but where my son wants to really work for it she has already asked if they can help if she wants to end the marriage. Only time will see how it all works out I suppose but thank you for replying to this thread and answering a few questions I had nobody else to ask.