Hi Tishy, welcome to the forum I just needed you to know that you don’t have to feel alone.
This forum has lots of people who are concerned about their loved ones addictions. There are also people in recovery offering support and advice too.
Read the other threads, click onto ‘share your story ‘ read the Theresa thread, there are several of us mums all with sons with addictions.
My son is 29, alcohol and cocaine addictions, when he has alcohol it triggers the need for cocaine.
Such an evil drug, changes them completely, divides families. Addiction affects everyone.
My son has had addictions for several years but only admitted it, and reached out for help just over a year ago. He’s had a few relapses, this is normal, but with help and support from the AA fellowship and his sponsor, he is currently 90+ days clean.
I wanted you to know that there’s light at the end of the tunnel. But he needs to realise he has a problem and seek support. It has to be his decision. For the moment, just let him know, that you still love him and care about him. The Icarus trust posts here too, they have councillors who have experience, especially if he has mental health issues. Also, look after yourself , don’t worry, and don’t feel alone.
Stay strong
Keep in touch here.
Lx