So very sorry to read your story and the hard decisions you’re having to make.. I’m glad you’ve found this forum but if you would like more help please contact us at Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports the family having to deal with an addiction problem. If you would like some support for yourself and maybe your partner please contact us at Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports people going through what you are now. One of our trained and experienced people would talk to you if you get in touch and let you know whatb help we can offer.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best.