My ex convinced himself the neighbours were trying to climb through the airing cupboard, were doing sexual things in their garden shed & the latest is that he thinks I’ve put spyware on his phone – He’s told people I’ve been having an affair, the list goes on. He thinks all his social media/bank accounts keep getting hacked (when in reality it’s him sending all the stuff to people/women – he’s become obsessed with sex & slept with a prostitutes) – it’s heart breaking – I’m the only one that seems to be able to see the scale of it all & his family/friends are just hiding their heads in the sand. I’ve had a phone call from him tonight in tears, it’s utterly heartbreaking but he won’t admit he’s still using, it’s like he thinks there’s another person that’s doing all this stuff & it’s not actually him. The most awful thing is the dealer actually picked him out to do all this – he got him to try it November last year – as he told me at the time when he came home & I was livid but I remember the lads name & where he was from that got him to try it… low & behold that’s now his dealer – he messages him things like ‘tier 4 tonight mate, got the good stuff in, need it gone’ – he just wont leave him alone so he doesn’t stand a chance. He must have spend about 30k in a year on the stuff – he’s worked to hard for what he’s got & now it’s all gone. It’s all just so, so sad. I’m about 5 weeks in to finding everything out, I’ve done so much research & like you, I was just enabling it all so I knew I had to go & give the house up. I’m hoping it gets easier, for both of us!
