The money side of things is really tough but it’s a good step that you have control of the finances. I basically try to pay everything myself. I don’t know what my husband earns and it seems to vanish as soon as it goes in. The ‘focus on yourself’ is really hard but I guess taking one day at a time probably helps and keep reminding yourself that you’ll get through this. Don’t drain yourself completely supporting him, it’s not your burden to carry
