Ka123 I just came to this forum, and made my first post today. I hope you find some clarity, advice…whatever you need. Your post struck me when you said he tells you you’re not doing good…or enough…or whatever. Unfortunately…as I too am learning the hard way ( married to cocaine addict for 5 years) addicts are quick to put the blame on someone else. I think it makes them feel a bit better about doing something they know they shouldnt. Everytime my husband uses and then says he did it because of my anger…not cleaning house…not supporting him…etc I will make sure to correct it…hell find something else. Don’t let him tear you down. Being with an addict will take a mental toll. If you have not reached out to his family it might be time to do so.
