Hi Catsmum,
Just reply when you can, it’s not a problem.
That’s the thing about the stories, they are all the same, the addicts do the same things, lies, manipulation, the money side of it is awful and all in all it’s very draining and not good for our own Mental Health, all they think about is themselves.
We make it too easy for them by paying their drug debts, good on you for not caving in.
Have a great week with your Husband, you both deserve your own time.
Take care.
Dx