Hi Ronnieboyne, I just need to clarify that I’m a fella I think you’ve got me down as a female but don’t worry I know the name doesn’t make it clear ????????.
I’ve just read through your posts and I am glad to hear that you managed to get out of the relationship with your ex if it was having such a negative impact on your life. Unfortunately the partners and family of addicts don’t tend to get the credit they deserve. They are generally treated as a cash machine or similar until they become surplus to requirements from the addict. This is usually when they finally stop giving them money either because they’ve had enough or simply do not have any left to give. I can completely understand you still missing your ex but as you have said you have to look after yourself to remain sane.
If there’s any advice I can give to you then please just ask and I will do my best to answer any questions etc.
Take care
Jayxx