Hollie, from personal experience. I haven’t told my girlfriend about my problem, I wish I could. If she did know I wouldn’t want her giving me a hard time. The best thing you can do is not to feed their habit, don’t give him any money and try to take control of their finances if you can. My work colleague has a worse habit than myself, and he recently started getting all of his wages paid into a joint account so his partner can track his spending.
