Thanks for that.
To be honest and it gets said in meetings it’s not really religious. You choose your own higher power. I don’t believe in God, but I believe in karma, good, bad energy, the universe and space. So that’s my higher power. And that’s who I pray to now. Basically law of attraction if this makes sense. You can even just pray to a dog if you want. It’s your own choice. He just needed to stick around longer and take more in.
What had he shown to you that proves he is quitting? For example, I made plans, give my gf my phone and car keys at weekend, listen to recovery podcast. This was before meetings.
Plus his nose, if it’s like that all the time he’s defo on it. I never really had nose bleeds. But my nose feels better after a month.
Personally I can’t see him drinking and not getting coke. I could be wrong. Buy a drug kit and test his eurine.
I can’t see anyone quitting after 13 year unless they have put real effort in to stop. But only you will know that. Feel free to ask me anything
I’ve been using 11 years. I don’t know any coke addict that can have a drink and not get coke! Alcohol is the main trigger to get coke. The second I have a sip I’m on phone to the dealer. Although I’m not an alcoholic – I’ve had to quit drinking.