Roses, Coco made such a good point there. We always loose to addiction. The drug of choice will always come first, no matter how much you point out the damage it’s going to the health, life, financial stability, they defend it. My boyfriend sometimes admits everything back to me, he knows what it causes, he knows it just as clearly as I see it. He just fights me because he wants it THAT bad. For me, when I stopped fighting his addiction, he finally noticed and started to calm down, because he saw that I’d started to lose interest and started to just not care about it or him, and that scared him. I do still fight it now, of course, but his use has increased again. I’m not suggesting this is in any way something you should do, just sharing my experiences in the hope that it gives some comfort and insight xx
