Hi Dot,
I have been reading your progress and it’s incredible! I need some advice if possible or just some truth if that’s okay, my now ex partner has left for the second time, he is a daily user and has got himself into a lot of debt, he chose it over me and left me with no explanation..is this common? I want to help him in anyway I can with support but I keep on getting told I can’t help him he has to help himself, I am lost and worried it will get completely out of control. I guess what I am asking is it normal to push someone you say you love away regularly when using and let them feel like it’s something they did or said. I don’t want to turn my back on him but he will not speak to me at all, your story has been great to read and I just want to know if you did similar? Please don’t feel like you have to reply if it is difficult for you. Thank you