Wow – well done Dot! So pleased for you!!
My husband is 13 months clean now too, I never thought i’d be able to say that. I’ve had the best year ever, and it should have been bad through Covid, but for me its been like a walk in the park, compared to living with an addict.
Smh – I’ll let Dot come back to you, but essentially what you’ve been told is about right, you can scream, shout, beg, cry, threaten but you’ll be wasting your breath unless he wants to get himself clean and chooses a different path in life.
Take care of yourself, and keep smiling. There are plenty of people on this site in your shoes, you’re not alone – even though I’m sure you feel like you are x