This is completely normal. The question I ask is:- has he become co dependent on you for his wants and needs? Do you let him get away with it time and time again?
If you do then yes he will continue doing it. I used to go out on Friday and come back on Sundays with no explanation to my ex wife. When she confronted me we argued but I’d blame her and make everything her fault… It’s what happens when you confront an addict.
I know it’s hard and it won’t get better but you have to consider is it worth putting up with the behaviour anymore? I’m all for making it work but until he stops and knows you are going to leave then he will change his ways.
When you are on cocaine it’s a blanket over your feelings to the people closest to you. You don’t care how they feel… You don’t care that you are hurting them. I didn’t realize till it was too late
I wouldn’t dream of exerting that behaviour to anyone ever again in all honesty
Cocaine is a selfish drug. You only take interest in conversations when it’s about that. You can’t balance the two and live a normal life that’s my take on it anyway.
I used to run too it when I was using over the slightest thing
“Oh my dogs shit in the house I need a line”
“I’ve had a bad day I need a line”
My tyres flat I need a line”
The circle has to be broken somewhere or you are gonna be used as a punch post “not literally but you get what I mean” for when he’s on his comedowns and it’s not fair
Ash I’m so happy for you. I bet life is much easier. My life has come together piece by piece and am much happier. Glad it worked out I really am