Reply To: Partner needs help from cocaine

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danman83
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I personally would stop bailing him out, he needs to learn from his mistakes, plus he will just take advantage and know you will and just keep doing it.

What is his situation now? Does he want to stop? If he does, what is he doing to stop with out the meetings?

I’ve read alot of books on addiction from both perspectives – family and user, and tough love is really hard. But they say its what the user needs whatever the outcome. I guess all this is on the basis of the user not even trying to quit. Before I joined CA. I was doing my best to stop for years.

Your right as well, keep coming here and talk to people in the same situation as you. It helps so much, and you might get some ideas how they deal with it and strength to do it. You have to think of your health and financial circumstances as well. You should come 1st now. Us addicts have to fix our own problems.

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