wow I am really pleased for you. You seem to have made a massive leap in your personal progress. That is such good news.
You’re right, if she is balancing her life with the drugs still in, she is nowhere near to acceptance.
My partner is now at the stage where he feels this is his last chance, not just to kick it, but with us. Me? I am not so sure. I don’t think beyond just wanting to see him off, and get some balance and peace back into my life. I don’t think beyond each day. It’s the easiest way to live, no expectations, no disappointments.
I’m so glad you’re in a better place. Maybe with enough time, your girlfriend will start to see what she’d losing, or lost? They usually do.