Thanks for that. I wouldn’t borrow him any more money, your just making it worse. Sorry for that comment but I’m just being honest. He’s just gonna keep taking advantage of you. And you can treat yourself with that money ????
I know what you mean when you love someone and they just ignore you, it’s does hurt. It just could be his addiction and what it’s doing to his way of thinking.
What is his brother like? Does he use coke or anything else? Drink?
He may think the devil has him. But he can beat it. Tell him watch a video on you tube. It’s Louise Clarke crack cocaine part 123.
He needs watch them in that order. And she goes into detail how to beat it. I bought her book as well. It’s so helpful.
He needs to avoid all triggers aswell.
I use snort off a key.. If I see a key.. That can trigger me to want it. Its crazy.
Tell him he needs be positive, do a daily routine on paper. With new hobbies, activities. I started reading, meditate, listen to recovery podcast. And tick it off each day. Exercise is another, walk.
He can do what he wants as long as he is doing stuff to keep him occupied. It’s about having some goals, and wanting to quit and believing in himself.
You need to think of yourself in all this as well and make sure your health is good, mentally as well.. As it is draining for you alot.
Hope your OK ????