Hi Jadeem,
I just read your story, sounds like a sad situation to be in,
clearly its not a good thing for you to be going through, and a shame you cannot talk to family or friends about it,
how long have you two been together and do you have any kids?
I totally relate to a lot of what you are saying, like the way it turns us into a detective because its so frustrating knowing they are lying to our faces, but even when you catch them red handed that doesn’t actually change anything sadly.