Hi Danman83, I have been reading your post a lot! Thanks for replying. I am really happy for you that you seem doing really well. Seeing your success perhaps give me a little hope.
Yes you are right. And he is addicted surely. He always say he wants to stop and only himself can stop which is true. But I always feel he is not determined enough, as I think it needs a proper plan rather than saying ‘ I will stop’.
Thanks for your advice. He said even he delete the dealer number he still can find a way to do it if he wants to. And he didn’t think the drinking is the problem. It’s the craving.He gave me his debit card but it didn’t help much. He said he probably need something big to stop him. But I don’t know what is this big. He cares about his work a lot but he started to miss work.
He says he knows how much pain he causes for the people around him, he knows everything. He was clean for 6 weeks since this January, but then failed again and take it even more frequently. And this time is the worst ever and didn’t come home for 4 days which never happened before. I don’t know if it is a peak then he will be better or ?
He doesn’t like talking to people his problem, so he probably didn’t want to go to the meeting, but again if he really want he would. I probably will tell him your successful story if there is a chance.
Sorry about my long message.