It’s up to you what you want to know about the 4 days I guess. I know my gf would interagate me lol.
I personally think if you want to quit this and be serious you have to come out your comfort zone. I always said I’d never do CA, I’d never do meetings, I never prayed. Never meditated. And look at me now I’ve had to do all each day now to fight this addiction, and it is working, I mediate every morn at 5am before work for 10 mins. People think it’s all this hmmmmm… Hands on knees lol. But it’s not. Every one I listen to on the meetings all had the same mind set as your husband and now they do the total opposite. They feel great, they have there life back. Obviously they have there bad days we all do. If all this stops me from putting that shite up my nose, and being depressed and suicidal, and I have to do it every day I know what id want.
It’s just hard making that decision I guess. Sometimes it’s our addictive brains telling us it won’t work. Or tricking us into thinking this.