Yes I totally agree he needs some sort of plan. Everyday I make sure I listen to a cocaine recovery story or addiction, on you tube. Plus I have to read everyday. I’ve read 14 books this year. That’s the most ever in my life lol. But it keeps you busy and stops your from over thinking.
Yes its true I imagine addicts don’t like to be forced to stop, but your his wife and her should expect a nagging or bollocking. I expect it. I mean he was gone for 4 days. My gf would of kicked me out! Your quite calm considering.
Imagine if you did that. I bet he would go mad.
I’ve been wanting to quit for years. I hate it and I tried everything. One rock bottom I had.. I was down stairs I must of had 3 bags of coke, and I came crashing down crying my eyes out feeling suicidal and desp to quit, I text my mum and told her everything this was at 6am. She text me later that day upset and was crying I stopped for about 2 month then got back on it. She still thinks am clean. Well I am now, but she didn’t know I started again then quit. This happened about 2 year ago.
Then this boxing day I just had a bad come down and needed to stop. My heart didn’t feel to good. I’ve saved £1000 in 2month. I’ve never saved in my life.
My advice to someone about cocaine.. Don’t even try it! Stay away from any one that does!.
I know a few people that have killed themselves on cocaine.
And had strokes.
Plus I have my children and I don’t want them to see me like this.