Hello, I hope your ok…
I have split with my partner of 7 years due to hes cocaine addiction he also injects. It completely ruined our relationship, for someone that started off as a really nice person soon turnt in to someone I don’t even know. I put up with it and made excuses for hes behaviour and tried to hide hes addiction because I was to shamed to tell people.
But all this was doing for me was bringing me down day in day out. We have a 5 year old son together and it was so unhealthy for it to go on. He was lacking responsibility he was unstable and he just wasn’t being the partner or father that he should have been.
He dissapeared last Monday, he then returned on the Wednesday evening came in, ate food, slept asked me to pick up hes last wages as he had lost both hes jobs. And then on the Thursday morning he dissaperead again and havnt seen or spoken since, he also has no phone. I have made the decision today to not have him in mine or my sons life anymore as it just wasn’t doing any of us no good. I have packed hes things and taken them to hes mums and I am getting my front door locks changed tonight. Yes I feel sad and I’m sure I will have many sad days, but at the end of it I hope for a better future for me and my son.
It is hard to break the cycle but sometimes enough is enough. He wasn’t helping me financially or anything , he was basically abusing my kindness and using me and my house like a doss house. Xx