I just read the comments on this and I even though the way you get treated makes you feel so alone it is actually exactly what so many are going through. I knew that other people must be in similar situations but to read you story it’s shocking how alike it is to my own experience. It is nice to know I’m not alone but also sad to hear of someone going through this horrible circumstance. I think it is good you have seen danman comments as it is so hard to think rationally in this situation and when we love someone it’s easier to make excuse for them and try to make it better. It’s so true you have to start thinking of yourself. I find that shouting or getting angry doesn’t work as someone doesn’t feel any sympathy with your upset when they take this. However I hope that you talked it through with your husband and got some answers.
