So sorry for what you are all going through. I’m new to this site as my bf promised he wouldn’t do coke when we got back together a few months ago, but I found out he did it last night and I just feel so sad and disappointed.
I think you (we!) need to be strong and not put up with this in our lives. As people have said, they have to want to do it for themselves, and put the work in. Stop triggers such as drinking and gambling, and stop hanging with people who do it. I hate this drug.