They certainly do have meetings very frequently indeed. They are an absolute godsend!
My husband was advised for the first meeting just join the zoom but camera off and just listen in. He was shocked really, like many addicts he didn’t imagine he was anywhere near as bad as the others. But they always say YET…. he didn’t YET lose everything and my husband has come within a hair’s breadth.
I told him straight… he either sorts the mess out or i sort myself andctge kids, and he is on his own. And i meant/mean it…. we lose the house that’s it! I’ll never stop loving him, or turn my back but i won’t go round the merry-go-round, not with the kids. This is as awful as it gets and it’s been hell.
I would suggest you ring the main number on the website and have a chat. If he really wants to get help they will call him and get it started.
My husband does a face to face on Thursdays and on friday he did his first proper share. I happened to overhear and though it was hard hearing i was also very proud.
He is 26 days clean and apparently that’s the longest since this whole nightmare began.
Without ca we would have rowed constantly and he would have been back on it by now and maybe lost everything. He is the breadwinner so no job, no house… no family.
They really are amazing.