[Anonymous]

I hadn’t heard of this either, so it’s good to have it as a reference. However my husband isn’t speaking to me now believe it or not so I doubt he is anywhere near ready to really change. He says he isn’t using but he hasn’t gone out of his way to prove that and unless there is proof I don’t want to know. For the sake of our children .

I’d love him to want to really change. But I fear he is too selfish and too immature at the age of nearly 40 even!

The pain is devastating and heartbreaking and even more so when there is what feels like absolutely no hope. Every day I feel like I am in a nightmare. I am having to accept that it is over completely between us and pray that I can protect our children from his ways.