Yes, they can definitely get better and so can we! But we all need support and they have to really want to change. And they need proper support.
My husband is 27 days clean, the longest ever apparently since the nightmare began. He seems like a different person, the one i married.
I thank cauk for how they are supporting him as they truly understand the misery and can say things and make him listen in a way that i couldn’t. He does several meetings a week and is on step 1 (of 12) which is Honesty.
It’s really made him rethink his whole attitude to life.
I’m suffering obviously but the least bad outcome from all this is he gets better, doesn’t lose his business and fulfils all the promises he has made to me.
Each day i feel slightly less hopeless.