Hi David,
my partner went into rehab 3 weeks ago.. so I am enjoying the peace of mind and space. He calls me pretty much every day, and I can say for the first time that he is clinically ‘clean’ – but will he stay clean when he comes back home.. I really don’t ever think he will.. to be brutally honest. This is where I am. Not worrying WHAT will happen when he comes home. I am just enjoying the space and peace.
As long as your girlfriend is still using, you ARE wasting your time talking to her. Trust me, I know from bitter experience. But it’s best to cut off and if she shows no sign of stopping, cut loose.