You are a better person than me – I can’t do objectively. I’ve tried all ways, granted not for long periods but I’ve played nice, calm, angry, frustrated and nothing dents him. In fact I think when I am talking to him at all it gives him reason to continue to do what he is doing. If I’m being nice it allows him to think there isn’t a problem, if I’m being angry (by telling him the truth of what he is/what he is missing with his kids) then it pushes him to do it more/ can’t deal with me. Any way I turn to deal with him it’s lose lose. I’m at the end of dealing with him. I’ve gone round in circles thinking I am to blame for my reactions to him but I’m realising whatever I do doesn’t matter because he hasn’t really taken accountability . It’s so hurtful
