Aw im not better than you, maybe just luckier because my husband genuinely wanted out.
It’s also self-preservation… he gets better, life gets back to normal and our future plans might still happen. If he can’t get better, or we can’t work our marriage out then it’s very sad.
I think he can do this and it’s worth being brave enough to let him try. Plus I’m not alone. I have family and friends supporting me. And anti-depressants, and counselling.
If he wasn’t willing then it would be a different story. If we lose this house and have to wreck the kids life i go it alone.