[jadeem]

Your situation is exactly the same as mine it’s scary! I used to find the person he was driving around in my house sometimes after work it was awful. This has been going on for 2 years now and probally about £5000 later he has agreed he has a problem and is now on anti depressants and getting help from CA meetings. All I can say is you are not at all crazy, the things they do make us become almost detective and trying to control everything because we’re so worried about them doing it time and time again. Talk to frank are really helpful and can give advice on places near you that can offer Counciling. I hope you feel slightly better that your not alone and I know how you feel!