I have no tangible proof but I KNOW my ex is on coke… reading all the posts it sounds just like my story.
8 years of marriage one day he was inlove calling me constantly and showering our kids with affection… the boom He was screaming at me not calling not coming home (trucker) suddenly he didn’t want me he cheated then screamed at me for getting legal counsel saying I was leaving him and didn’t wanna be married… then told me to go get divorce then called me screaming about some guy talking to me on Instagram.
Came home begging to reconnect was good for 2 days…two good like overly happy etc…but he kept going to his truck and locking it… random crying…he went back out on the road and a few days later back to lying mood swings etc… next thing I knew it was name calling I asked him about drugs…his reaction is why I know im right he ONLY flips out when he is caught he accused me of doing drugs called me names, said I was spreading rumors about him calling his work… he came home.AGAIN acting like a zombie with no feelings threw shit yelled ignored the kids sexually assaulted me (decided I’d do anal if I liked it or not making me scream and wouldn’t get off me I had to kick him) he denies it ever happend… beat his dog for peeing on our floor mats threw our sons bike… then disappeared came back awhile later to tell me fine get the divorce we could remarry latter… took his sbit and moved to another state with his side chick junkie…still acted like we were together until I finally was like no ur with her… he told his kids he picked “his job” over them…7 months he hasn’t seen them in 7 months…I was a stay at home mom he has left us penniless and doesn’t care. He called for awhile but it was always broken promises.to our kids and them crying so now that been over for almost 3 months… he is dodging the divorce won’t visit his family even though his grandpa has cancer. His GF is putting things In her name for him… I found out alot of other things like a years worth of lies I never knew….naturally he tells people I’m a cheating liar…I LOVED THAT MAN…THAT MAN I LOVED IS.GONE A.DEMON OWNS HIS SOUL