Hi Danman, thank you so much for all your help. So the wipes came and I wiped all over over downstairs toilet and there it was, all over! I am absolutely heartbroken. He admitted it all and is glad I know because he would like to stop. He doesn’t think it’s a problem however I have my concerns because he admitted on his last night out that he tried so hard not to have any but he ended up doing it.
He has been really open and honest with me, I have asked him to delete this person’s number but I really don’t think that is going to help because if he really wanted some then all his mates do it anyway so he could easily get his hands on some.
I have told him I am concerned about him drinking and this triggering it. He said he doesn’t want to cut out alcohol and that he wants to see how it goes after he’s had a drink to see if it is or is not an addiction, then take it from there.
I have literally just stopped crying from it all. He has agreed to doing the tests to put my mind at ease, i just feel like I can’t relax now its the weekend.