Hi all, sorry been off a while trying to get back to just being me and not letting my wife’s drinking consume me or get me down. Thankyou for your comments and sharing your experiences, and how you are feeling. I genuinely hope that you are all okay as much as you can be given the difficult circumstances and decisions we are all facing. I am not here to preach but please look after yourselves and try spending time doing something that you enjoy and focusing on yourself. On this journey we tend to forget about caring for ourselves to easily (I know I have often) as their drinking becomes our main focus. However by doing things that makes us happy with or without our partners helps us realise that the most important person in this is actually us and not them.
Stay safe and stay strong.