Why does she hide him?
Just hide your car keys lol
Why would he blame u for going a friends house?
Your right it’s not your fault. Us addicts blame partners and familys and everyday life on using. But it’s just part of the addiction/disease, its just an excuse to keep using. It’s called emotional relapse. It’s just an excuse to go and take the stuff. It’s all out faults. We dont go blaming asda for selling me whiskey lol. It’s my own choice at the end of the day. I wouldn’t beat yourself up over it.
What is his mum like with him? Wraps him in cotton wool?